tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516872488346630999.post2585234171797976598..comments2023-08-26T05:52:43.398-07:00Comments on Finding Fruit: UnpostAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00643910888274969005noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516872488346630999.post-36695950318184720422010-02-21T21:53:37.263-08:002010-02-21T21:53:37.263-08:00Thanks Tonya for the encouragement. I hate feeling...Thanks Tonya for the encouragement. I hate feeling guilty but also want to be honest about my feelings. But I don't want to hurt anyone but I think my struggle with defining family will ring true for someone else. But... but... but... Conflicted but at peace. Really appreciate your comments!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00643910888274969005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516872488346630999.post-10819350847404891642010-02-18T16:47:09.922-08:002010-02-18T16:47:09.922-08:00Jen, blogs are an interesting medium. On the one h...Jen, blogs are an interesting medium. On the one hand they're personal reflections about life happenings; on the other, we post them on the net for the world to see. There are times I've written a post, and saved it to be deleted at a later, less frustrated time, or because I felt that it wasn't something I wanted to explain. My take on your post is that your feelings are your feelings. Period. You have the right to them, and to lay them out there. Don't feel the need to explain. <br /><br />As with the struggles with parents/family/etc., we all have them. I know that I struggle with being a child of my parents wanting to see things the way I remember them from childhood, yet I'm an adult who has different perspectives. One time, during a disagreement (because we do disagree, although not often) I informed my parents that I am both the best and the worst of who they are. They taught me example, and then sent me out in the world to learn how to disagree with all that stuff. <br /><br />Keep your chin up. Live. Laugh. Love. Pray. In the end, you and God are the only ones you have to answer to. :)Tonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08786928248181750533noreply@blogger.com