The weird thing though is that while we are right back in our old lives and some things have not changed, I know that I missed some important things in the lives of the people around me. Babies were born. Parents died. Children grew and some even went off to college. Jobs were lost. Employers changed. Remodeling was done. I feel like I need to take a few minutes with everyone I know and ask them the highlight and low point of the last two years.
And I have changed as well in the last two years. Things have happened in my life that people here do not know. My relationship with my parents has changed drastically. And that is really awkward because my parents were so involved in the kids lives when we lived here before. They watched the kids a lot and they even kept them overnight at their house. That won't be happening now because of what has happened over the last two years but only those people that I kept really in touch with know. So now I get lots of comments about the grandparents being so happy we are back or you must like having the grandparents around to help again and I don't know what to say.
So you can go home again. But things will have changed.
Hey * -You never use your names so you will be * :). I just wanted to say Welcome Home and I'm sorry for the difficulties with your parents. As someone who remembers some wonderful moments at your dinner table in middle school, and your parents' willingness to have great gangs of children all over the place...well, I'm sorry that relationship has changed. Take care of yourself and your boys.
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